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How trauma lives in the body
Anjana Iyer, M.A., Registered Psychotherapist · CRPO #17275
Trauma is something the body remembers, not only something the mind does. Long after the danger has passed, the body may still stay in survival mode.
What that can look like
- Anxiety, irritability, or being “on edge”
- Muscle tension that never quite lets go
- Sleep that does not restore anything
- Numbness, or feeling disconnected from yourself
Our nervous system is designed to protect us. When we experience overwhelming stress, emotional pain, or unsafe environments, the body learns patterns of protection: fight, flight, freeze, or fawn. Over time these patterns can become deeply ingrained, even long after the danger has passed.
Why insight alone is not enough
Healing trauma is not just about “thinking differently.” It is also about helping the body feel safe again. This is why therapy that includes the mind-body connection can be so powerful. Through awareness, emotional processing, grounding, breathwork and nervous system regulation, the body can begin to release what it has been carrying for so long.
Healing does not mean forgetting what happened. It means no longer having your body live as though it is still happening.